🌱Reflexive Verbs

Verbos Reflexivos

A1 · Stage 2 · Week 6~60 minutes

After this lesson, you'll be able to:

  • Conjugate common reflexive verbs
  • Describe a complete daily routine
  • Place reflexive pronouns correctly
  • Distinguish reflexive vs non-reflexive usage

Grammar Focus

Essential grammar for this lesson with examples.

Recap: Daily Routines from Stage 1

In Stage 1, you briefly met reflexive verbs when you learned "me llamo" (my name is / I call myself). Now it's time for the full treatment!

Reflexive verbs describe actions you do to yourself - washing yourself, getting yourself dressed, waking yourself up.

How do you spot a reflexive verb? Look at the infinitive form: it ends in se instead of just -r. For example: lavarse (to wash oneself), vestirse (to get dressed), levantarse (to get up).

When you conjugate a reflexive verb, the "se" changes to match the subject: me (yo), te (tú), se (él/ella), nos (nosotros), os (vosotros), se (ellos/ellas).

Examples:

Me llamo Ana. (llamarse)My name is Ana. (literally: I call myself Ana)
Me levanto a las siete. (levantarse)I get up at seven. (literally: I lift myself up)
Se ducha por la mañana. (ducharse)He/She showers in the morning.
Tip: Spanish has many reflexive verbs beyond daily routines - sentirse (to feel), quedarse (to stay), irse (to leave), acordarse (to remember), divertirse (to have fun). Daily routine verbs are just the most common ones you'll use at this level!

Reflexive Pronoun System

Reflexive pronouns go before the conjugated verb. They match the subject - "me" for yo, "te" for tú, "se" for él/ella/usted/ellos/ellas/ustedes, "nos" for nosotros, and "os" for vosotros. Let's see the full system with levantarse (to get up):

levantarse (to get up) - Present Tense

PersonSingularPlural
1st person(yo) me levantoI get up(nosotros) nos levantamoswe get up
2nd person(tú) te levantasyou get up(vosotros) os levantáisyou all get up
3rd person(él/ella) se levantahe/she gets up(ellos/ellas) se levantanthey get up

Examples:

Yo me levanto a las siete.I get up at seven.
¿A qué hora te levantas?What time do you get up?
Él se levanta a las nueve.He gets up at nine.
Nosotros nos levantamos a las seis.We get up at six.
Tip: The pronoun always comes immediately before the conjugated verb: me levanto, NOT levanto me. The verb itself conjugates normally - it's just the pronoun that's added.
Full guide to reflexive verbs

Morning Routines

Here are the most common reflexive verbs for describing your morning. Notice that some are also stem-changing - despertarse (e→ie) and vestirse (e→i). You'll use these every time you describe your day:

Morning Routine Verbs

InfinitiveMeaningYo FormNote
despertarsewake upme despiertostem-changing e→ie
levantarseget upme levantoregular
ducharseshowerme duchoregular
lavarsewashoneselfme lavoregular
vestirseget dressedme vistostem-changing e→i
peinarsecomb one's hairme peinoregular
maquillarseput on makeupme maquilloregular
afeitarseshaveme afeitoregular

Examples:

Me despierto a las seis y media.I wake up at six thirty.
Me levanto, me ducho y me visto.I get up, I shower, and I get dressed.
Mi hermana se maquilla y se peina.My sister puts on makeup and combs her hair.
Mi padre se afeita todos los días.My father shaves every day.
Tip: Most reflexive verbs conjugate regularly - you just add the pronoun. Watch out for despertarse (me despierto, not "me desperto") and vestirse (me visto, not "me vesto") because they're stem-changing too!

Evening Routines

The evening routine has its own set of reflexive verbs. Acostarse (o→ue) and dormirse (o→ue) are both stem-changing. Use sequence words like después (then), luego (next), and más tarde (later) to describe the order:

Evening Routine Verbs

InfinitiveMeaningYo FormNote
quitarse la ropatake off clothesme quito la roparegular
ponerse el pijamaput on pajamasme pongo el pijamago verb: yo pongo
lavarse los dientesbrush teethme lavo los dientesregular
acostarsego to bedme acuestostem-changing o→ue
dormirsefall asleepme duermostem-changing o→ue

Examples:

Por la noche me quito la ropa.At night I take off my clothes.
Me lavo los dientes.I brush my teeth.
Me pongo el pijama y me acuesto.I put on my pajamas and go to bed.
Me duermo rápidamente porque estoy cansada.I fall asleep quickly because I'm tired.
Tip: Notice that with body parts and clothing, Spanish uses the reflexive + article (not possessive): "me lavo LOS dientes" (I brush THE teeth), NOT "mis dientes." The reflexive pronoun already tells us whose teeth they are!

Reflexive vs Non-Reflexive

Many verbs can be used both reflexively (action on yourself) and non-reflexively (action on someone/something else). The meaning changes depending on whether you include the reflexive pronoun. This is a key distinction:

Examples:

Lavo el coche. / Me lavo la cara.I wash the car. / I wash my face.
Despierto a los niños. / Me despierto a las siete.I wake the children. / I wake up at seven.
Llamo a mi madre. / Me llamo Pablo.I call my mother. / My name is Pablo.
Acuesto a los niños. / Me acuesto a las once.I put the children to bed. / I go to bed at eleven.
Tip: Think of it this way: without "me/te/se," you're doing the action TO something else. With the reflexive pronoun, you're doing the action TO yourself. "Lavo" = I wash (something). "Me lavo" = I wash (myself).

Pronoun Placement

Reflexive pronouns normally go before the conjugated verb. But when there's an infinitive, you have TWO options - the pronoun can go before the first verb OR attach to the end of the infinitive. Both are correct and equally common:

Examples:

Me levanto temprano.I get up early. (pronoun before verb)
Me voy a levantar temprano.I'm going to get up early. (pronoun before first verb)
Voy a levantarme temprano.I'm going to get up early. (pronoun attached to infinitive)
Quiero ducharme ahora. / Me quiero duchar ahora.I want to shower now. (both correct)
Tip: Both positions are equally correct and natural. Just don't put the pronoun in BOTH places! "Me voy a levantarme" is wrong - choose one position only.

Describing Others' Routines

To describe someone else's routine, use the third person reflexive pronoun "se." This works for él, ella, usted (singular) and ellos, ellas, ustedes (plural). This is how you talk about your family's and friends' daily habits:

Examples:

Mi hermano se levanta tarde los fines de semana.My brother gets up late on weekends.
Mis padres se acuestan a las once.My parents go to bed at eleven.
Mi madre se despierta a las cinco.My mother wakes up at five.
Los niños se bañan por la noche.The children bathe at night.
Tip: The pronoun "se" serves both singular and plural in the third person. Context and the verb form tell you if it's one person (se levanta) or multiple (se levantan).

Conversation Example

Ana looks tired. She and Pablo compare their morning routines.

Pablo
Ana, ¿estás bien? Pareces cansada.Ana, are you OK? You look tired.
Ana
Sí, estoy agotada. Me despierto a las cinco y media todos los días.Yes, I'm exhausted. I wake up at five thirty every day.
Pablo
¡A las cinco y media! ¿Por qué tan temprano?At five thirty! Why so early?
Ana
Primero me levanto y me ducho. Luego me visto, me peino y me maquillo. Después desayuno y salgo de casa a las seis y media.First I get up and shower. Then I get dressed, comb my hair, and put on makeup. After that I have breakfast and leave home at six thirty.
Pablo
¡Todo eso en una hora! Yo me despierto a las ocho. Me ducho, me afeito y me visto en veinte minutos.All that in one hour! I wake up at eight. I shower, shave, and get dressed in twenty minutes.
Ana
¿Veinte minutos? ¡Imposible! ¿Y desayunas?Twenty minutes? Impossible! And do you have breakfast?
Pablo
Bueno... a veces me tomo un café en la oficina. No me gusta levantarme temprano.Well... sometimes I have a coffee at the office. I don't like getting up early.
Ana
¡Y yo no puedo acostarme tarde! Me acuesto a las diez porque tengo mucho sueño.And I can't go to bed late! I go to bed at ten because I'm very sleepy.
Pablo
¿A las diez? Yo me acuesto a las doce. Primero ceno, luego me relajo y veo la tele.At ten? I go to bed at twelve. First I have dinner, then I relax and watch TV.
Ana
Mi hermana Sofía se acuesta a la una de la mañana. Es estudiante - los jóvenes nunca se duermen temprano.My sister Sofía goes to bed at one in the morning. She's a student - young people never fall asleep early.
Pablo
Mi hermana Carmen también. Se levanta tarde los fines de semana. ¡Qué vida!My sister Carmen too. She gets up late on weekends. What a life!
Ana
Bueno, voy a lavarme los dientes y a prepararme para trabajar. ¡Otro día largo!Well, I'm going to brush my teeth and get ready for work. Another long day!

🌍 La rutina española

Daily routines differ dramatically across the Spanish-speaking world. In Spain, lunch (la comida) is the main meal and happens around 2-3 PM - many people go home from work to eat with family. Dinner (la cena) is light and late, often at 9-10 PM. This is why Spanish TV shows air their prime-time programming at 10 PM! In Colombia, "las onces" is a tradition of a late morning or mid-afternoon snack - the name comes from the eleven letters in "aguardiente" (a traditional drink). In Mexico, "la merienda" is a light meal between lunch and dinner, often around 6 PM. These different eating schedules shape the entire rhythm of the day - from when people wake up to when they go to bed.