Reflexive Verbs
Verbos Reflexivos
After this lesson, you'll be able to:
- ✓Conjugate common reflexive verbs
- ✓Describe a complete daily routine
- ✓Place reflexive pronouns correctly
- ✓Distinguish reflexive vs non-reflexive usage
Grammar Focus
Essential grammar for this lesson with examples.
Recap: Daily Routines from Stage 1
In Stage 1, you briefly met reflexive verbs when you learned "me llamo" (my name is / I call myself). Now it's time for the full treatment!
Reflexive verbs describe actions you do to yourself - washing yourself, getting yourself dressed, waking yourself up.
How do you spot a reflexive verb? Look at the infinitive form: it ends in se instead of just -r. For example: lavarse (to wash oneself), vestirse (to get dressed), levantarse (to get up).
When you conjugate a reflexive verb, the "se" changes to match the subject: me (yo), te (tú), se (él/ella), nos (nosotros), os (vosotros), se (ellos/ellas).
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Reflexive Pronoun System
Reflexive pronouns go before the conjugated verb. They match the subject - "me" for yo, "te" for tú, "se" for él/ella/usted/ellos/ellas/ustedes, "nos" for nosotros, and "os" for vosotros. Let's see the full system with levantarse (to get up):
levantarse (to get up) - Present Tense
| Person | Singular | Plural |
|---|---|---|
| 1st person | (yo) me levantoI get up | (nosotros) nos levantamoswe get up |
| 2nd person | (tú) te levantasyou get up | (vosotros) os levantáisyou all get up |
| 3rd person | (él/ella) se levantahe/she gets up | (ellos/ellas) se levantanthey get up |
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Morning Routines
Here are the most common reflexive verbs for describing your morning. Notice that some are also stem-changing - despertarse (e→ie) and vestirse (e→i). You'll use these every time you describe your day:
Morning Routine Verbs
| Infinitive | Meaning | Yo Form | Note |
|---|---|---|---|
| despertarse | wake up | me despierto | stem-changing e→ie |
| levantarse | get up | me levanto | regular |
| ducharse | shower | me ducho | regular |
| lavarse | washoneself | me lavo | regular |
| vestirse | get dressed | me visto | stem-changing e→i |
| peinarse | comb one's hair | me peino | regular |
| maquillarse | put on makeup | me maquillo | regular |
| afeitarse | shave | me afeito | regular |
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Evening Routines
The evening routine has its own set of reflexive verbs. Acostarse (o→ue) and dormirse (o→ue) are both stem-changing. Use sequence words like después (then), luego (next), and más tarde (later) to describe the order:
Evening Routine Verbs
| Infinitive | Meaning | Yo Form | Note |
|---|---|---|---|
| quitarse la ropa | take off clothes | me quito la ropa | regular |
| ponerse el pijama | put on pajamas | me pongo el pijama | go verb: yo pongo |
| lavarse los dientes | brush teeth | me lavo los dientes | regular |
| acostarse | go to bed | me acuesto | stem-changing o→ue |
| dormirse | fall asleep | me duermo | stem-changing o→ue |
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Reflexive vs Non-Reflexive
Many verbs can be used both reflexively (action on yourself) and non-reflexively (action on someone/something else). The meaning changes depending on whether you include the reflexive pronoun. This is a key distinction:
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Pronoun Placement
Reflexive pronouns normally go before the conjugated verb. But when there's an infinitive, you have TWO options - the pronoun can go before the first verb OR attach to the end of the infinitive. Both are correct and equally common:
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Describing Others' Routines
To describe someone else's routine, use the third person reflexive pronoun "se." This works for él, ella, usted (singular) and ellos, ellas, ustedes (plural). This is how you talk about your family's and friends' daily habits:
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Conversation Example
Ana looks tired. She and Pablo compare their morning routines.
🌍 La rutina española
Daily routines differ dramatically across the Spanish-speaking world. In Spain, lunch (la comida) is the main meal and happens around 2-3 PM - many people go home from work to eat with family. Dinner (la cena) is light and late, often at 9-10 PM. This is why Spanish TV shows air their prime-time programming at 10 PM! In Colombia, "las onces" is a tradition of a late morning or mid-afternoon snack - the name comes from the eleven letters in "aguardiente" (a traditional drink). In Mexico, "la merienda" is a light meal between lunch and dinner, often around 6 PM. These different eating schedules shape the entire rhythm of the day - from when people wake up to when they go to bed.