- Learn the 12 forms: Master the Spanish ... (este, esta, estos, estas, ese, esa, esos, esas, aquel, aquella, aquellos, aquellas)
- Learn the distances: Understand the three-distance system - here (este), there (ese), over there (aquel)
- Gender agreement: Match demonstratives to masculine/feminine nouns (este libro, esta mesa)
- Number agreement: Use singular/plural forms correctly (este/estos, esta/estas)
- Shopping language: Point and ask for items using "Quiero este/esa" (I want this/that)
- Everyday use: Apply demonstratives in classroom, home, and shopping situations
Demonstratives: este, ese, aquel (This, That, That Over There)
Point to things with este, ese, aquel and their variations
What You'll Learn
Overview
Learn to point at things in Spanish! Unlike English (this/that), Spanish has three distances: here, there, and way over there!
The Three-Distance System
THIS/THESE (Near Me)
THAT/THOSE (Near You)
THAT/THOSE (Far Away)
Structure & Formation
📍 Complete Forms Chart
Each distance has 4 forms for gender and number agreement:
All 12 Forms
| Form | 👇 THIS (near me) | 👈 THAT (near you) | 👀 THAT (far away) |
|---|---|---|---|
| Masculine Singular | este this | ese that | aquel that over there |
| Feminine Singular | esta this | esa that | aquella that over there |
| Masculine Plural | estos these | esos those | aquellos those over there |
| Feminine Plural | estas these | esas those | aquellas those over there |
| Neuter / Abstract (unknown/ideas) | esto this (thing / idea) | eso that (thing / idea) | aquello that (thing / idea) |
💡 Tip: The neuter forms (esto, eso, aquello) are used when you don't know what something is or when referring to abstract concepts, situations, or ideas.
👇 HERE - Near Me (THIS/THESE)
this book (m. sing.)
this table (f. sing.)
these books (m. pl.)
these tables (f. pl.)
- Este libro es interesante - This book is interesting
- Esta silla es cómoda - This chair is comfortable
- Estos libros son míos - These books are mine
- Estas flores son bonitas - These flowers are pretty
👈 THERE - Near You (THAT/THOSE)
that car (m. sing.)
that house (f. sing.)
those cars (m. pl.)
those houses (f. pl.)
- Ese bolígrafo es tuyo - That pen is yours
- Esa mesa es grande - That table is big
- Esos zapatos son nuevos - Those shoes are new
- Esas llaves son suyas - Those keys are his/hers
👀 OVER THERE - Far from Both (THAT OVER THERE)
that building (m. sing.)
that mountain (f. sing.)
those buildings (m. pl.)
those mountains (f. pl.)
- Aquel edificio es antiguo - That building is old
- Aquella montaña es alta - That mountain is tall
- Aquellos árboles son grandes - Those trees are big
- Aquellas casas son blancas - Those houses are white
Shopping & Everyday Use
Essential Shopping Phrases
I want this shirt (holding it)
How much is that bag? (near seller)
I like these shoes (in my hands)
I prefer those ones over there
Quick Distance Guide
✋ I can touch it
In my hand, on my desk
👥 You can touch it
Near you, in your space
🏔️ Neither can reach
Across room, outside
Advanced Concepts
Grammar Note: "Demonstratives" refers to both adjectives (este libro = this book) and pronouns (quiero este = I want this one). The forms are identical - pronouns simply stand alone without a noun.
Demonstrative Pronouns (Standing Alone)
I want this one (masculine)
I prefer those ones (feminine plural)
Neuter Forms (Abstract Ideas)
Special forms for abstract concepts or unknown things:
What is this?
That's true
That was incredible
Beyond Physical Distance (Time)
This year (current)
That day (mentioned)
That era (distant past)
Fixed Expressions
That's why / Therefore
Around three o'clock
This and that
In those days
Examples
Este/Esta (Near Me - This)
Ese/Esa (Near You - That)
Aquel/Aquella (Far - Over There)
Neuter Forms (Abstract/Unknown)
Three-Distance System Summary
Este/Esta (HERE)
Near me - I can touch it
Ese/Esa (THERE)
Near you - you can touch it
Aquel/Aquella (FAR)
Far from both of us
We have an in-depth article that explores this topic further:
Common Mistakes
Wrong gender agreement
este mesa
esta mesa - this table
Mesa is feminine, so use 'esta' not 'este'. Check the noun's gender!
Confusing ese/aquel distance
Dame aquel libro (book next to listener)
Dame ese libro - Give me that book
Use 'ese/esa' for things near the listener, 'aquel/aquella' for far from both.
Number agreement forgotten
este coches
estos coches - these cars
Plural nouns need plural demonstratives. Coches → estos.
Direct English translation
eso libro (trying to say 'that book')
ese libro - that book
Match the demonstrative to the noun's gender. Libro is masculine → ese.

Quick Test
Test your understanding of Spanish demonstratives!
1. How do you say 'this book' (masculine)?
2. What's the correct form for 'that house' (near you)?
3. How do you say 'these cars' (masculine plural)?
4. You're pointing at shirts near the salesperson. What's correct?
5. How do you say 'that building over there' (masculine)?
6. How do you say 'those pencils' (near you)?
7. What's 'these chairs' (feminine plural)?
8. You want 'that notebook' on the teacher's desk (far). What's correct?