When I Was Young
Cuando Yo Era Joven
After this lesson, you'll be able to:
- ✓Describe what life was like when you were a child
- ✓Talk about things you used to do regularly
- ✓Conjugate regular and irregular verbs in the imperfect
Grammar Focus
Essential grammar for this lesson with examples.
What Is the Imperfect Tense?
The imperfect (el imperfecto) is a past tense used to talk about things that used to happen, were happening, or to describe how things were. Unlike the preterite (which you learned for completed actions), the imperfect is for ongoing, repeated, or background situations in the past.
Think of it this way: the preterite is a photograph (a single moment), while the imperfect is a video (an ongoing scene).
The imperfect is used for:
- Habitual actions: things you used to do regularly
- Descriptions: what people, places, or things were like
- Background information: setting the scene in a story
- Age and time in the past: "I was 10 years old", "It was 3 o'clock"
Examples:
Regular -AR Verbs in the Imperfect
Great news - the imperfect is one of the easiest tenses to conjugate! For -AR verbs, remove the -ar ending and add these endings: -aba, -abas, -aba, -ábamos, -abais, -aban.
Notice that the yo and el/ella forms are identical. Context will always make it clear who you're talking about.
Also notice the accent on -ábamos (nosotros form) - it's the only form with an accent mark.
hablar (to speak) - Imperfect
| Person | Singular | Plural |
|---|---|---|
| 1st person | (yo) hablaba | (nosotros/as) hablábamos |
| 2nd person | (tu) hablabas | (vosotros/as) hablabais |
| 3rd person | (el/ella/Ud.) hablaba | (ellos/ellas/Uds.) hablaban |
Examples:
Regular -ER/-IR Verbs in the Imperfect
-ER and -IR verbs share the same imperfect endings. Remove the -er or -ir and add: -ía, -ías, -ía, -íamos, -íais, -ían.
All of these endings have an accent on the í - this is important for pronunciation. And just like -AR verbs, the yo and él/ella forms are identical.
comer (to eat) & vivir (to live) - Imperfect
| comer | vivir | |
|---|---|---|
| (yo) | comía | vivía |
| (tú) | comías | vivías |
| (él/ella/Ud.) | comía | vivía |
| (nosotros/as) | comíamos | vivíamos |
| (vosotros/as) | comíais | vivíais |
| (ellos/ellas/Uds.) | comían | vivían |
Examples:
The Only 3 Irregular Verbs!
Here is the best thing about the imperfect tense - there are only three irregular verbs: ser (to be), ir (to go), and ver (to see). Every other verb in Spanish is regular in the imperfect. Compare that to the preterite, which has dozens of irregulars!
Let's look at each one:
The 3 Irregulars: ser, ir, ver
| ser (to be) | ir (to go) | ver (to see) | |
|---|---|---|---|
| (yo) | era | iba | veía |
| (tu) | eras | ibas | veías |
| (el/ella/Ud.) | era | iba | veía |
| (nosotros/as) | éramos | íbamos | veíamos |
| (vosotros/as) | erais | ibais | veíais |
| (ellos/ellas/Uds.) | eran | iban | veían |
Examples:
Key Time Expressions for the Imperfect
Certain time expressions are strong signals that you need the imperfect tense. These words indicate habitual, repeated, or ongoing actions in the past. When you see or hear these expressions, think imperfect!
Imperfect Time Expressions
| Spanish | English |
|---|---|
| de niño/a | as a child |
| de pequeño/a | when little |
| cuando era joven | when I was young |
| siempre | always |
| todos los días | every day |
| normalmente | normally |
| a menudo | often |
| en aquella época | in those days |
| antes | before / in the past |
Examples:
Imperfect for Descriptions
One of the most important uses of the imperfect is to describe how things were in the past. This includes describing people (appearance, personality), places, weather, emotions, and general states. A handful of verbs appear constantly in these descriptions:
- ser - what something/someone was like
- tener - what someone had (age, possessions, features)
- hacer - what the weather was like
- haber (había) - what there was/were
- estar - how someone felt or where something was
Examples:
Conversation Example
Ana and Pablo are having coffee and start reminiscing about their childhoods. Ana grew up in Guadalajara, Mexico, and Pablo grew up in Madrid, Spain.
🌍 Childhood in the Spanish-Speaking World
Childhood experiences across the Spanish-speaking world share many common threads, even as they differ by region. In many countries, children grow up spending a great deal of time outdoors - playing in plazas, parks, and streets with neighborhood children. The concept of "jugar en la calle" (playing in the street) is a cherished memory for many adults, something that has become less common in bigger cities today. Family closeness is central to childhood across Latin America and Spain. Grandparents often live nearby or even in the same house, and weekend visits to "la casa de la abuela" (grandmother's house) are a beloved tradition. These gatherings revolve around food - whether it's paella in Spain, enchiladas in Mexico, or arepas in Colombia. School systems vary: in Spain, primary school is called "el colegio" and typically runs from ages 6 to 12, while "el instituto" covers secondary education. In many Latin American countries, "la escuela" is the more common term. The school day often includes a long midday break, and in some regións children go home for lunch with their families - a tradition connected to the broader culture of shared mealtimes.