The rule at a glance

deber / tener que / hay que + infinitive

deber = should · tener que = have to · hay que = one must

  • Advice, moral duty

    deber

    should, ought to

    Debes descansar más.

    You should rest more.

  • Strong necessity

    tener que

    have to, must

    Tengo que ir al médico mañana.

    I have to go to the doctor tomorrow.

  • General rule (impersonal)

    hay que

    one must, you need to

    Hay que hervir el agua primero.

    You need to boil the water first.

  • Personal or not? Deber and tener que are conjugated (debo, tengo que); hay que is impersonal and always hay que.
  • Deber de + infinitive is probability, not obligation: Debe de ser tarde (It must be late).

Forms

Deber + infinitive is a regular -er verb, conjugated like any regular present-tense verb. Tener que + infinitive uses the irregular forms of tener. Hay que + infinitive comes from haber and never changes for person; all three are followed by the infinitive, like other verb + infinitive patterns.

debertener quehay que
yodebotengo quehay que
túdebestienes quehay que
él/​ella/​usteddebetiene quehay que
nosotrosdebemostenemos quehay que
vosotrosdebéistenéis quehay que
ellos/​ustedesdebentienen quehay que

Key differences

AspectDeberTener queHay que
StrengthWeak to mediumStrongMedium
Personal/​impersonalPersonalPersonalImpersonal
Source of obligationMoral, internalExternal circumstancesRules, norms
Conjugated?Yes (debo, debes...)Yes (tengo, tienes...)No (always 3rd person: hay, había, habrá...)
FormalityMore formalNeutral/casualNeutral
Common inAdvice, formal writingEveryday speechSigns, instructions

The same situation, three ways:

Debo estudiar para el examen – I should study (moral, less urgent)

Tengo que estudiar para el examen – I have to study (necessity, concrete)

Hay que estudiar para los exámenes – One must study (general truth)

When to use it

1. Deber: advice and moral duty

Moral duties, advice, expected behaviour. The conditional deberías makes it a polite suggestion.

Debes descansar más – You should rest more

Deberías llamar a tu madre – You should call your mother

Deberías comer más verduras – You should eat more vegetables (advice)

Deberías hablar con tu jefe – You should talk to your boss (suggestion)

2. Tener que: strong necessity

External obligations, necessary actions, rules and requirements, urgent needs. The obligation feels concrete and unavoidable.

Tengo que ir al médico mañana – I have to go to the doctor tomorrow

Tienes que ponerte el cinturón – You must put your seatbelt on

Tiene que terminar el informe hoy – She has to finish the report today (deadline)

3. Hay que: general rules and instructions

General rules, instructions (recipes, signs), social norms, impersonal advice. No one in particular is told.

Hay que hervir el agua primero – You need to boil the water first

Hay que ser educado – One should be polite

Hay que respetar las normas de la empresa – One must respect company rules

Hay que lavarse las manos frecuentemente – You must wash your hands often

Common mistakes

Leaving out que

Not this (incorrect): Tengo estudiar

But this (correct): Tengo que estudiar – I have to study. "Have to" is tener que: the que is always there before the infinitive.

Deber de for obligation

Not this (incorrect): Debo de estudiar

But this (correct): Debo estudiar – I should study. Deber de is for probability, not obligation.

A conjugated verb after hay que

Not this (incorrect): Hay que estudias más

But this (correct): Hay que estudiar más – You have to study more. After hay que, always use the infinitive.

Quick check

6 questions
  1. 1. Which means 'You should call your mother' (advice)?

  2. 2. Complete: _____ ir al médico mañana, tengo cita. (I have to go to the doctor tomorrow)

  3. 3. Which is the impersonal one, used on signs and in recipes?

  4. 4. Which is correct?

  5. 5. What does 'Debe de ser tarde' mean?

  6. 6. How do you say 'We'll have to see'?

Deber, tener que or hay que?

Next steps

More listening and reading on this topic: Reading: Obligaciones y planes (Obligations and Plans) →

Going further

Deber de for probability, hay que in other tenses, a decision guide and more examples

Deber + infinitive vs deber de + infinitive

Deber + infinitive = obligation. Deber de + infinitive = probability: Debe de ser tarde (It must be late). In everyday speech many native speakers mix them up, but keep them apart in writing.

Hay que in other tenses

Hay que changes tense but never person: había que (imperfect), habrá que (future), ha habido que (present perfect). Tener que and deber work in every tense too: tuve que uses the preterite.

Había que esperar – One had to wait

Habrá que ver – We'll have to see

Ha habido que cancelar – It's been necessary to cancel

Quick decision guide

  1. Is it directed at a specific person? No → hay que. Yes → continue.
  2. How strong is the obligation? Advice or moral duty → deber. Strong necessity → tener que.
  3. Context? Formal advice → deber. Everyday obligations → tener que. Instructions and signs → hay que.

More examples

Debes llegar a tiempo – You should arrive on time (polite)

Tienes que llegar a tiempo – You have to arrive on time (required)

Hay que llegar a tiempo – One must arrive on time (norm)

Tengo que ir al médico – I have to go to the doctor (appointment)